How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 03:47

How does one succeed in life?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Which unexpected celebrity has done a bold or revealing photoshoot?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Ask yourself:

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

That's it for today.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Does not procrastinate.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Procrastinates a lot.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Making more friends is a goal.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What I need from you?

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.